Lesbian Visibility: The (Sometimes Accurate) Lesbian Stereotypes

TITTIES!! Well now that I’ve got your attention let’s get to the real topic here, lesbian stereotypes!

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How to Make the Distance Work: Long-Distance Activities

Finding fun activities to do with your partner can be a big win for communication and combatting the Big Sad. Looking for new long-distance activities can be pretty bleak sometimes, so let my list of fun stuff give you some fresh ideas to try out. (5/6. Link to intro and other parts here.)

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How to Make the Distance Work: A Guide

As many of you may know, my girlfriend and I have been in a long-distance relationship for over four years. “How do you do it?” is a question we get asked all the time. Instead of my usual shrug and “idk man idk,” I decided to blog an actual answer. Behold, the introductory post (1/6).

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Queer Book Review: Coffee Will Make You Black by April Sinclair

Queer book review! All reviews touch on genre/plot, tropes (if any), and quality of gay content, and include both spoiler and spoiler-lite versions. Catch up on my last book review of Santa Olivia by Jacqueline Carey.

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HIMMGF–Part 16–Our First Christmas Together

Here is the next installment of How I Met My Girlfriend! Links to previous parts: Prologue | 1 | 2 | 3 | 5 | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | 10 | 11 | 12 | 13 | 14 | 15. If you enjoy this series, subscribe to my emailing list and tell your friends about it!

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How I Met My GF – Prologue – The Tumblr Power Struggle

Earlier this year, my girlfriend and I celebrated 3 years together. So I’m going to keep up this light/heavy post pattern and tell you the light story of how I found the love of my life on the other side of the Atlantic Ocean. [CW–Very brief mention of self-harm.]

PROLOGUE: THE TUMBLR POWER STRUGGLE.

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A List of Gay Signs That I Somehow Managed to Ignore for the Majority of My Life

I didn’t realize I was queer until I moved out and started college. I joke about how college changed my life because it made me gay, but I definitely had plenty of signs in the past that my heteronormative and internally-homophobic self-denied, as if I got extra Heterosexual EP Points every time I ignored it. So here lies my ignorance, my denial, my heteronormativity, and my literal stupidity.

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That Time I Begged the Universe I Would Never Fall in Love with a Girl

Imagine this: You are a nineteen-year-old college girl who has never had sex before. You’ve never even had a boyfriend. You think about dating your guy friend’s roommate simply because he’s into you, even though he isn’t your type. But what is my type? You ask yourself, wondering why you haven’t had a boyfriend before. What a silly thing to ask yourself, you know what your type is.

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